Wednesday, April 22, 2015

Saya memang dah tahu (HIV) - Part 2.

Pernah baca tak entri kat SINI?

Okey .....
Setelah sekian lama barulah aku dapat feedback from that particular patient. Punyelah lama, ingatkan he tried to escape or anything.

That man came to see me with his fiancee last month.

Dipendekkan cerita, memang the lady knows everything (upon 1:1 counselling session). She is actually a social worker in which by nature her heart memang mudah kesian & ada perasaan ingin membantu yang menebal dalam diri dia (sorrylah ayat aku dramatik sikit sebab it's really hard for me to cut short this story).

Why end up with marriage?
Mereka asalnya sahabat (Part macamana boleh bersahabat tu tak perlu ceritalah ea.). Lama-kelamaan masing-masing dah rasa saling memahami antara 1 sama lain & so on & so forth.

How about sex?
They know the risk & they said won't go that far. That lady just want a partner in his life who can accompany her anywhere she goes so that she will feel secure. Dia jugak nak bagi peluang for that patient untuk rasa /alami alam perkahwinan since that man memang tak pernah kawen. Soon after marriage the will still stay separately in view the children tak boleh terima 'ayah baru' lagi.

TAKE HOME MESSAGE:
There are actually so much issues yang aku tau she tried to hide but it's ok as long as I already did my job as part of preventive measures in HIV / AIDS.

Related topics:
- Ujian HIV.
- Pre & Post-test counselling HIV / AIDS.
- Unexplained weight loss in adults.
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24 comments:

  1. izzeydaApril 22, 2015 at 8:38 AM

    Ya Allah ada juga manusia sebegini walaupun tahu risiko yang dia akan hadapi..

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  2. dear aniesApril 22, 2015 at 10:23 AM

    speechless!

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  3. NAZLIANA SI CUTEApril 22, 2015 at 12:08 PM

    bahaya juga kan..

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  4. milaApril 22, 2015 at 2:33 PM

    mulianya pompuan tu..arapnye ape yg dia buat tu btl lah.

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  5. JRApril 22, 2015 at 5:59 PM

    Perkahwinan tanpa seks? Apa pun semoga mereka berbahagia dalam perkahwinan itu kerana satu peringkat dalam perkahwinan kita akan sedar seks bukan segala-galanya dalam kehidupan sesingkat ini...

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  6. Gee LionApril 23, 2015 at 1:19 AM

    Tak tahu nak rasa apa..
    Tersentuh barang kali..?
    Ada benar apa yg orang2 tua kata.. sesungguhnya, cinta itu.. buta..
    Dan cinta bukan kerana seks semata, tapi perasaan ingin dilindungi serta dihargai di sisi orang yang kita sayang.. :'(
    Tapi dalam keadaan begini, buat saya terkesima seketika..

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  7. Farrah MFApril 23, 2015 at 7:26 AM

    Uishhh lama betul baru datang utk susulan ye! Dah lama kan Shikin tulis entri part 1 nya....
    Rindu kat Shikin :)

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  8. Syahida YepApril 23, 2015 at 5:11 PM

    patutlah org kata, love is blind & love conquers ALL.

    sejauh manakah couple tu boleh berpegang pd janji "wont go that far?" huhu complicatednya Ya Allah..

    berdepan dgn kes2 mcm ni, i cannot imagine being in ur situation la dr shikin...moga Allah mudahkan semuanya, especially utk couple yg berkenaan..

    p/s: lama juga sy x singgah sini :)

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  9. kakitravelkhairuddin.blogspot.comApril 23, 2015 at 8:41 PM

    nice sharing

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  10. Siti ShariniApril 24, 2015 at 3:05 PM

    I wonder how secure will she be.. He's going to end up real sick just like someone I know..and she will end up taking care of him n her kids too by herself..Entahlah jika sudah takdir,pasti ada hikmahnya kan..wallahualam..Semoga Allah saja membalas niat murni beliau..Semoga dpermudahkan urusan..

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  11. UnknownApril 24, 2015 at 6:25 PM

    assalamualaikum.. maaf mencelah..
    akak follow blog ni sebab akak join contest hijab lets wear it right... :)

    http://dramaticuniq.blogspot.com/2015/04/contest-hijab-lets-wear-it-right.html

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  12. Nurhaziq Abdul HafizApril 24, 2015 at 10:02 PM

    kesian kan orang yang kena HIV ni. sob sob

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  13. Tinta Farah DApril 25, 2015 at 10:42 PM

    da habis fikir ka tu... byk benda yg perlu diambil pusing...

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    1. zarul farhanaMay 17, 2015 at 4:50 AM

      kan.. byk perkara kena fikir... masa depan mcm mna.. penerimaan family lagi.. dia kena kuat utj semua ini.. kdg2 setengah masyarakat akan pandang serong... harap2 semuanya ok..

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  14. arysha_fayyadhApril 27, 2015 at 3:38 PM

    Assalam nazeck,
    masa iols interview kawen dolu pun doctor tu ada bagitau kes yang sama jugak tau3

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  15. Pakcik KantinApril 30, 2015 at 12:41 AM

    kalau dah jodoh, HIV pun jadi

    http://kucenmaster.blogspot.com/

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  16. Zafirah KamaApril 30, 2015 at 1:20 PM

    sayangnya that women to the patient...

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  17. Scdha Sein (SS)April 30, 2015 at 1:41 PM

    Salam... Ada terima sampul dari SS tak? Kalu ada tolong inform... Tak perlu buat review... Thanks...

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  18. lynmunirApril 30, 2015 at 6:02 PM

    Tak pe lah. Bukan mudah menjadi orang yang berjiwa besar dan sanggup menerima
    pasangan seadanya dan tidak mempersoalkan kisah lalu. Moga mereka kekal hingga
    ke Jannah.

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  19. Siti Yang MenaipMay 9, 2015 at 1:32 AM

    uuuish gitu sekali.. huurm.. moga mudahlah urusan diorang ni..
    nak question soal hati mmg xleh.. semuanya misteri.

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  20. zarul farhanaMay 17, 2015 at 4:48 AM

    harap semua berjalan lancar...

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  21. Jari ManisJune 20, 2015 at 12:01 PM

    ada jugak org mcm tu...boleh ke tahan lepas kahwin tinggal berasingan...'kuat betul iman' tu..ishhhh..kalau sis JM rasa x boleh

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  22. Cik RoseJuly 4, 2015 at 5:44 AM

    Kuatnya hati dia hadapi hal ni.. Tak semua mampu lakukan. Tulah hal hati ni sukar nak tafsir!

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