Thursday, November 6, 2014
Awak muda lagi.
Seorang ayah membawa anak lelaki nya umo 16 tahun jumpa aku.
Aku: Apa masalah adik?
Dia diam pulak. Muka nampak bermasalah. Dia ni nampak macam matured sikit dari usia - macam 19 tahun gitu.
Ayah: Tangan dia luka kena kaca, Dr. Show Dr your hand.
Si anak pun tunjuk. Tapi, tetap membisu.
Ayah: Why not you tell Dr the truth.
Ayah dia memang nampak educated. Umo area 58-60 tahun.
Aku dah suspen.
Aku: Kenapa, awak depressed ke?
Ayah: Yes, Dr. Because he lose his girlfriend. The girl threatened to leave because of some conflict.
Aku pun mula tanya macam-macam for diagnosis purpose & for counseling. Ayah nya bagitau the girl is 21 years old, which mean she is older than him. Zaman sekarang memang budak-budak remaja ni suka cari perempuan yang older than their age kot. Dah banyak terjadi. Teringat pulak kat Che Ta & Zain Saidin. Tapi, tu lainlah. Niii..masih skolah lagi. Duit nak dating pun mintak kat mak.
Aku bukan nak aibkan family ni. Just nak share situasi remaja sekarang. Lagipun aku tak reveal personal details patient ni pun, kan? Kata si ayah, the girl's parents memang encourage the relationship. Si ayah ni nampak tak setuju tapi dia takdelah nak marah-marah sakan kat anak dia. Cuma ada nasihatkan anak dia.
What should I said? Memang aku pun bukan baik mana untuk bagi nasihat. Tapi as an adult korang mesti nak cakap ini cinta monyet kan? Common thing is common. But, I won't say like that to him. I still need to respect his feeling, but at the same time I didn't say I agree with what he had been doing. How about you?
Aku: Apa masalah adik?
Dia diam pulak. Muka nampak bermasalah. Dia ni nampak macam matured sikit dari usia - macam 19 tahun gitu.
Ayah: Tangan dia luka kena kaca, Dr. Show Dr your hand.
Si anak pun tunjuk. Tapi, tetap membisu.
Ayah: Why not you tell Dr the truth.
Ayah dia memang nampak educated. Umo area 58-60 tahun.
Aku dah suspen.
Aku: Kenapa, awak depressed ke?
Ayah: Yes, Dr. Because he lose his girlfriend. The girl threatened to leave because of some conflict.
Aku pun mula tanya macam-macam for diagnosis purpose & for counseling. Ayah nya bagitau the girl is 21 years old, which mean she is older than him. Zaman sekarang memang budak-budak remaja ni suka cari perempuan yang older than their age kot. Dah banyak terjadi. Teringat pulak kat Che Ta & Zain Saidin. Tapi, tu lainlah. Niii..masih skolah lagi. Duit nak dating pun mintak kat mak.
Aku bukan nak aibkan family ni. Just nak share situasi remaja sekarang. Lagipun aku tak reveal personal details patient ni pun, kan? Kata si ayah, the girl's parents memang encourage the relationship. Si ayah ni nampak tak setuju tapi dia takdelah nak marah-marah sakan kat anak dia. Cuma ada nasihatkan anak dia.
What should I said? Memang aku pun bukan baik mana untuk bagi nasihat. Tapi as an adult korang mesti nak cakap ini cinta monyet kan? Common thing is common. But, I won't say like that to him. I still need to respect his feeling, but at the same time I didn't say I agree with what he had been doing. How about you?
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