Tuesday, June 17, 2014

Right time for toilet-training.

Hai...
Rasenye u olzzz tau yang anak2 sepatutnya dah pandai ke toilet sendiri bila dah umo 4 tahun.
So, senang ke nak toilet train anak2 ni?
Umo berapa nak start toilet train?
Apa halangan yang korang hadapi?
Selama mana nak ajar baru dorang OK?
 For those yang ada pengalaman, boleh share kat sini ea.
Ini penting untuk tolong ibu--ibu muda.
Pengalaman aku sendiri:
Memang nak kene sabar sepanjang train anak2 ni.
Mula2 aku taram cara aku sendiri - FAIL!
-> Mase tu aku x pakaikan die pampers.
Then, aku pesan banyak kali kalau nak pee btau.
Tapi, die x btau pun. Tau2 dah penuh kencing atas lantai.
Aku start anak 1st tu mase die 3 tawun.
Alhamdulillah lepas tu aku dapat idea camne nak toilet train dari akak nurse kat KKPD.
Caranya -> Setiap 30min - 1 jam, paksa anak ke toilet.
Mak2 nak kene rajin.
Kalau lupe, set alarm. (Malam pun wat camtu).
Initially, mmg die xkan kencing mase korang bawak die masuk toilet.
Jangan marah2 nanti die x cooperate/ x confidence.
Tau nape? Dorang xtau pun 'rase nak pee' tu cemane.
Die x reti nak empty bladder lagi pon..
** AWAS kadang2 die akan kate 'rase nak poo', but actually die nak pee.
Slalu tu aku pancur air kat suprapubic area (ari-ari kot dalam Malay)...bagi die sejuk.
Lame-kelamaan, dia akan pandai pee jugak.
Anak aku , dalam seminggu dah SUCCESS.
Ade budak 3 hari dah ok. It depends.
P/S- Takyahlah start awal sangat. Lagi dorang tak paham apa yang korang cube buat.

Negligence..

Just imagine in a family...
There are papa + mama + kids.
Papa got his own hobby. 
And so with mama who got her own interest. 
Both are so engrossed in their own business.

What are left behind?
Yess.... of course the kids..
Can you tell me whether that person deserve to be called "papa", "mama" or "daddy", "mommy".
Just spent your 1 min & think this carefully!