Pernah baca tak entri kat SINI?
Okey .....
Setelah sekian lama barulah aku dapat feedback from that particular patient. Punyelah lama, ingatkan he tried to escape or anything.
That man came to see me with his fiancee last month.
Dipendekkan cerita, memang the lady knows everything (upon 1:1 counselling session). She is actually a social worker in which by nature her heart memang mudah kesian & ada perasaan ingin membantu yang menebal dalam diri dia (sorrylah ayat aku dramatik sikit sebab it's really hard for me to cut short this story).
Why end up with marriage?
Mereka asalnya sahabat (Part macamana boleh bersahabat tu tak perlu ceritalah ea.). Lama-kelamaan masing-masing dah rasa saling memahami antara 1 sama lain & so on & so forth.
How about sex?
They know the risk & they said won't go that far. That lady just want a partner in his life who can accompany her anywhere she goes so that she will feel secure. Dia jugak nak bagi peluang for that patient untuk rasa /alami alam perkahwinan since that man memang tak pernah kawen. Soon after marriage the will still stay separately in view the children tak boleh terima 'ayah baru' lagi.
TAKE HOME MESSAGE:
There are actually so much issues yang aku tau she tried to hide but it's ok as long as I already did my job as part of preventive measures in HIV / AIDS.
Related topics:
- Ujian HIV.
- Pre & Post-test counselling HIV / AIDS.
- Unexplained weight loss in adults.
Okey .....
Setelah sekian lama barulah aku dapat feedback from that particular patient. Punyelah lama, ingatkan he tried to escape or anything.
That man came to see me with his fiancee last month.
Dipendekkan cerita, memang the lady knows everything (upon 1:1 counselling session). She is actually a social worker in which by nature her heart memang mudah kesian & ada perasaan ingin membantu yang menebal dalam diri dia (sorrylah ayat aku dramatik sikit sebab it's really hard for me to cut short this story).
Why end up with marriage?
Mereka asalnya sahabat (Part macamana boleh bersahabat tu tak perlu ceritalah ea.). Lama-kelamaan masing-masing dah rasa saling memahami antara 1 sama lain & so on & so forth.
How about sex?
They know the risk & they said won't go that far. That lady just want a partner in his life who can accompany her anywhere she goes so that she will feel secure. Dia jugak nak bagi peluang for that patient untuk rasa /alami alam perkahwinan since that man memang tak pernah kawen. Soon after marriage the will still stay separately in view the children tak boleh terima 'ayah baru' lagi.
TAKE HOME MESSAGE:
There are actually so much issues yang aku tau she tried to hide but it's ok as long as I already did my job as part of preventive measures in HIV / AIDS.
Related topics:
- Ujian HIV.
- Pre & Post-test counselling HIV / AIDS.
- Unexplained weight loss in adults.
Ya Allah ada juga manusia sebegini walaupun tahu risiko yang dia akan hadapi..
ReplyDeletespeechless!
ReplyDeletebahaya juga kan..
ReplyDeletemulianya pompuan tu..arapnye ape yg dia buat tu btl lah.
ReplyDeletePerkahwinan tanpa seks? Apa pun semoga mereka berbahagia dalam perkahwinan itu kerana satu peringkat dalam perkahwinan kita akan sedar seks bukan segala-galanya dalam kehidupan sesingkat ini...
ReplyDeleteTak tahu nak rasa apa..
ReplyDeleteTersentuh barang kali..?
Ada benar apa yg orang2 tua kata.. sesungguhnya, cinta itu.. buta..
Dan cinta bukan kerana seks semata, tapi perasaan ingin dilindungi serta dihargai di sisi orang yang kita sayang.. :'(
Tapi dalam keadaan begini, buat saya terkesima seketika..
Uishhh lama betul baru datang utk susulan ye! Dah lama kan Shikin tulis entri part 1 nya....
ReplyDeleteRindu kat Shikin :)
patutlah org kata, love is blind & love conquers ALL.
ReplyDeletesejauh manakah couple tu boleh berpegang pd janji "wont go that far?" huhu complicatednya Ya Allah..
berdepan dgn kes2 mcm ni, i cannot imagine being in ur situation la dr shikin...moga Allah mudahkan semuanya, especially utk couple yg berkenaan..
p/s: lama juga sy x singgah sini :)
nice sharing
ReplyDeleteI wonder how secure will she be.. He's going to end up real sick just like someone I know..and she will end up taking care of him n her kids too by herself..Entahlah jika sudah takdir,pasti ada hikmahnya kan..wallahualam..Semoga Allah saja membalas niat murni beliau..Semoga dpermudahkan urusan..
ReplyDeleteassalamualaikum.. maaf mencelah..
ReplyDeleteakak follow blog ni sebab akak join contest hijab lets wear it right... :)
http://dramaticuniq.blogspot.com/2015/04/contest-hijab-lets-wear-it-right.html
kesian kan orang yang kena HIV ni. sob sob
ReplyDeleteda habis fikir ka tu... byk benda yg perlu diambil pusing...
ReplyDeletekan.. byk perkara kena fikir... masa depan mcm mna.. penerimaan family lagi.. dia kena kuat utj semua ini.. kdg2 setengah masyarakat akan pandang serong... harap2 semuanya ok..
DeleteAssalam nazeck,
ReplyDeletemasa iols interview kawen dolu pun doctor tu ada bagitau kes yang sama jugak tau3
kalau dah jodoh, HIV pun jadi
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sayangnya that women to the patient...
ReplyDeleteSalam... Ada terima sampul dari SS tak? Kalu ada tolong inform... Tak perlu buat review... Thanks...
ReplyDeleteTak pe lah. Bukan mudah menjadi orang yang berjiwa besar dan sanggup menerima
ReplyDeletepasangan seadanya dan tidak mempersoalkan kisah lalu. Moga mereka kekal hingga
ke Jannah.
uuuish gitu sekali.. huurm.. moga mudahlah urusan diorang ni..
ReplyDeletenak question soal hati mmg xleh.. semuanya misteri.
betul tu.. soal hati ni susah gak la..
Deleteharap semua berjalan lancar...
ReplyDeleteada jugak org mcm tu...boleh ke tahan lepas kahwin tinggal berasingan...'kuat betul iman' tu..ishhhh..kalau sis JM rasa x boleh
ReplyDeleteKuatnya hati dia hadapi hal ni.. Tak semua mampu lakukan. Tulah hal hati ni sukar nak tafsir!
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